Friday, 1 November 2013

NO!vember

NO!vember is something that some friends have come up with in an attempt to get into our pretty Christmas dresses. In the same way that some men will be growing a moustache for Movember, and other quit smoking for STOP-tober, my friends and I will be saying NO to treats of all kinds. Hence, NO!vemeber

Now, my willpower is zero but my muffin top enormous after having a baby 9 months ago (that story starts here and here) so having searched Pinterest for some inspiration I have created a Motivation Wall on our fridge and wanted to share it!

The aim is that this will keep me on track, while at the same time encouraging my husband in his marathon training for April 2014.

This is our Motivation Wall - hoping it will cater for both Rob and I
First - the rules! Plus, a little reminder about WHY I was to complete NO!vember.


You can see in the original image that we have included a food plan for the week - many people will tell you that this is useful. Saving money, eating right. There are blog posts all over the internet talking of how much this has helped them and their family. This is something we have always done anyway - but give it go yourself!

I've written some inspirational and motivating quotes (that I pinched from the original wall from Pinterest!) and something more personal - is our little man proud? Plus my favourite pic to help drive that home! Now, I'm all about being positive, but if a little guilt trip will drive it home on the challenging days - I'm all for it!

You can also see from this image that I have also added little post-its with a day-by-day countdown. I have read that this will be encouraging and make us keen to complete the challenge!


This next part is for Rob specifically. He ran the marathon in 2012 but has decided to do it again. He needs to crack on with his training, but is finding it hard between having a new baby, working so hard and supporting me. Hopefully this will help!


 

 
I have found a great 10 minute fat burning routine that I am determined to fit into my day - 10 minutes. SURELY I can find that. What do I do for 10 minutes each day that I can skip...? TV? Read for 20 minutes instead of 30 at bedtime? It could even be 10 minutes of entertaining the little man!


The wall is also full of little tips to keep me going when I am getting lost - have I eaten enough fruit? Do I drink enough water? Remember to walk to dog as a little extra exercise!

 

 


NO!vember will be successful with my Motivation Wall!
 

Thursday, 19 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 18 My quiet place

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day eighteen - My quiet place

This is tough one!

We have one little boy - Lawrence, 7 months old and a dog that is quite relaxed so our home is pretty quiet and relaxed. However, when my husband gets home from work I have usually had enough of being 'on' all day and need five minutes for me! (Is this bad...?!)

So, I disappear upstairs while Rob and Lawrence play under the pretence of washing, or something equally boring and sit on the bed in silence for five minutes. Lawrence stayed at his grandma's house a few weeks ago and I couldn't work out what was wrong when we went to bed. I realised your ears are always on as a mum - even when Lawrence has gone to bed you're still listening and waiting.

So, my quiet place is my bedroom, but just for a few minutes a day and it seriously helps!

What is yours?

A blog everyday in September: Day 19 Pirates!

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day nineteen - Pirates!

I had intentions of telling you all about this hilarious day while holidaying in Malta where we randomly came across a film set near a beach and went over to have our photos taken with the cast and crew. We posed for pictures and they were a really good laugh but we looked ridiculous, but now that I have found the picture I realise - they weren't pirates, they were, in fact, Vikings.



So, instead, have a picture of my little boy in his 'pirate bandana'.



If you can't be funny, be cute!

Monday, 16 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 17 My favourite painting

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day seventeen: My favourite painting

Whistlejacket, By George Stubbs
This is not so much about the painting - albeit wonderful. It is more about its placing in the National Gallery in London!

You walk through the Great Hall and turn right, and there it is. It's in an enormous frame that you can spot through the doorway as you approach. It is the most amazing placement I have seen and catches my eye EVERY time I go in the gallery. I can't resist walking by the gallery without going inside to see!

A blog everyday in September: Day 14 Cakes, cakes and more cakes!

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day fourteen: Cakes, cakes and more cakes!

I LOVE cake! Any kind of cake is fine by me and I am happy to report that it does, in fact, make everything better!

Please see this blog post to see my thoughts and ideas about some cakes.

Below I have also added a super scrummy recipe for you all to try! I didn't know I liked banana cake until I tried this recipe. YUM!

http://www.queenofeverything.co.uk/2012/02/06/mary-berrys-banana-loaf/

Enjoy - eat cake and be merry! Mary Berry merry if you will...

A blog everyday in September: Day 16 Heroes

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day sixteen: Heroes

Superman is the greatest hero of all time!



Here are the reasons why:
  • He can fly!
  • He is kind and works hard at his day job
  • He saves people - even the bad ones
  • He admits he has a fault - Kryptonite
  • He has worked hard despite being a little messed up family-wise


Overall - he is a real hero! He hides behind Clark Kent to protect his real, heroic identity.

When compared to others he comes out on top for his humility:
  • Bruce Wayne is the real guy and he hides behind Batman
  • Tony Stark is real and hides behind Iron Man
  • Even Eric Wimp hides behind Bananaman (although I don't blame him!)
Who are you heroes?

Tuesday, 10 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 10 Swap Ideas Day

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day ten: Swap ideas day

So, I have to hope that my brothers and sister-in-laws don't find this one! (I am pretty sure they don't read it, but if you are STOP now!!!)

Both my brother are having babies this year and I was racking my brain to think, what can I make them both? I needed it to be fairly straight forward, not too time consuming (I may have mentioned that I have a baby -  here and here!). But I also wanted it to be something the babies could keep.


So - here it is. A memory blanket.

I have printed photos onto fabric and created a patchwork blanket for my new niece/nephew x2!

My brother as a baby on his new memory blanket, wrapped and ready to go.


I used PhotoFabric Sheets from Amazon. They were about £15 including postage so I only ordered one set, unsure how good the photos would come out. As you can see above - they were fantastic. All the baby photos were traditional photos so the quality wasn't great, but the printing was great. You just put the fabric in your printer like you usually would with paper.

I have added a baby photo and small child photo of each parent, and then some couples pictures too (e.g. one couple is married so I have included a wedding photo!)

This image shows the other blanket I am making, not finished just yet, but almost there. It's just to give you an idea of the overall effect.



So there you have it - a unique baby gift! Now, if I could only find the time to make one for myself..!

What do you think?

Monday, 9 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 9 A Special Song

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog ever day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day nine: A song that reminds you of a special time

I have two -

1) This might be too obvious, but it is our first dance song. Queen - You're my Best Friend

My husband broke his leg three weeks before our wedding (football injury!)


Broken leg!
I had tonsillitis on the day. With Rob's leg and the operation he had to have, finalising the wedding, working full time, having an interview for my PGCE - it all got a bit much and my body started to break!

So, although the day went well, we both felt a bit rotten. However, Rob bravely left his crutches behind and stood wobbling on one leg, so that we could have a half decent first dance. I love the song anyway, but he really is my best friend!

2) While I was pregnant I listened to Norah Jones quite a bit. I found it relaxing and the baby often moved while I was listening - I think it was more about lying still and relaxing than the music, but it worked. Now that he is born (and seven months old!) when I hear the song it makes me think of the wonderful times of being pregnant.

What songs evoke your memories?

Sunday, 8 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 8 Grandparent day

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day eight: Grandparent day

This is a really tough one! My paternal grandparents and I are very close, we always have been. Since I was born my family have always lived 5 miles away from them and on account of that we would see them once or twice a week. My granddad passed away three years ago so my husband and I ensure we see plenty of my nan - we can't fill the void for each other, but it helps I think!

This is at our wedding.

But, we have LOTS of happy stories and memories. Here are a small selection:

  • Grandad had nicknames for everyone. My brother, Sam, was always Sambo-Scrambo. I was always Ali-Ooop. I have a cousin called Felicity, she was always called Flickety-Knickety, her sister Sophie was Whoty-Woo. I have no idea where these came from!

  • Nan and Grandad are both into their music and on many occasions can turn your words into a song. Amazing when you consider that they can't remember what day it is sometimes!

  • Nan gets her words wrong all the time! This isn't an age thing - she's been doing it ever since I can remember. DVD = VD (!!). Holidaying in Phuket, Thailand = she pronounced it phonetically! Brilliant.

  • Walking through a field one day, a lady shouts to them from the other end " Have you got a dog?" Granddad shouts back "Yes!". The lady is then seen to be scrabbling round trying to get her big and naughty dog on a lead. When they meet half way across the field, the lady is looking around for their dog. "Where's your dog?" Granddad replies "At home!" Huge grins all round (from everyone other than the lady!)
I am so lucky to have such great grandparents!

A blog everyday in September: Day 7 Neither rain nor snow day

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day seven: Neither rain nor snow day

Chicky wiggle wants to know about our favourite time of year

Well...I change my mind depending on the time of year, so here are some reasons why I love various times of year. 

Winter -

Get the winter woollies out! Everyone has a good warm jumper that they love to wear! Mine is a blue Christmas jumper from Fat Face!

Apologies for the snake and the cheesy grin - I was very excited!
 
I love getting all wrapped up in hats and coats and going out. It might simply be for a dog walk, or something more like bonfire night or carnival! 

Christmas!! This is definitely my favourite time of year. Just follow my Pinterest account to see how much I love it! Everyone is feeling festive and in the mood for giving. I love getting my prezzies bought or made and wrapped (see my Christmas makes post!), decorating the house, planning the dinner! Christmas!!


Summer -

Cooler clothes for hot days!

Eating outside. I always start with evening meals but by the end of the summer breakfast outside seems a great idea too!

Swimming outdoors - maybe at the beach, or at this amazing Outdoor pool near where we live!

The food! BBQ, salads of all variety, baked potatoes. At every meal. It's totally acceptable!!


I can get on board with spring and autumn, but really these are just lead up to the good bits!

What about you...?

Thursday, 5 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 5 Teachers' day

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog ever day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day five: Teachers' day

Now, I think this post is supposed to be something that inspired you...mine memory sort of is, and hope it is something that others can follow too...keep reading to the end - I'll get to the point!

As a teacher I have lots of memories of my time in school, that help me become a better teacher today. This is one I tell everyone - so apologies if you've heard it before

One day, in a Geography class, our teacher asked us to look at an ordnance survey map and work out which way the river was flowing, and explain how we knew. To my friend sat by me, I JOKINGLY said "well this map is just a flat version of the Earth. If it was the real thing it would look like this (here I held the map upright in front of me) so the river would be flowing downwards off the page". We giggled at my crap joke, however the teacher overheard me and ridiculed me in front of the rest of the class. It was simply light hearted humour on his part - he was a fabulous teacher and was one of those that inspired me to become a teacher myself.

HOWEVER - as a child I was humiliated. I was a keen sort of pupil and hated to get things wrong, or not understand things and I was embarrassed to think that he thought I was being serious. Still, to this day, I have no idea how to find out which was a river flows when looking at a ordnance survey map. I attribute this lack of knowledge to the fact that I must have switched off for the remained of the lesson.

That's the funny thing about memories - I can remember the classroom, where I was sat, the friend I was talking to, the teacher, the feeling, but I have no idea what we learnt that day.

Children are in fact just that - children. As teachers, parents, friends, people of the general public I think we often forget that children are children. As an adult, as well as a teacher, it is my responsibility to ensure they can learn - in all senses of that word - in a secure, free-to-make-mistakes world.

I strive for this as a teacher already, but will try as a parent too.

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

A Blog everyday in September: Day 4 Favourite Film

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day four: Favourite Film

Oh - where to begin?! Here is a list, with some reasons why they are great

Little Women - the book is amazing, and the film (the one with Susan Sarandon) brings it to life a little bit more!

Any 'Marvel Comics' film. A little bit of action, some heroics, some funny. Perfect! My favourite is Captain America!


Aladdin - "Shall I call you 'Al', or 'Din', or maybe just 'Laddie'. Here boy!" Need I say more?

A Wonderful Life - most Christmas films are brilliant, but this one is second to none! It seems dark and gloomy but actually the message is...well, wonderful!
 

Please list your favourite films in the comments below!

Tuesday, 3 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 3 A strange fact

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog ever day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day three: A strange fact

You know those limpets that stick to cliffs and things...


If it was as big as a human, it's penis would be as big as Nelsons Column, Trafalgar Sq. London!


Amazing!

Monday, 2 September 2013

A blog everyday in September: Day 2 Back to school

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day two: Back to school

Today I return to school as a secondary teacher in an all boys school. In a couple of week I will blog about the ups and downs of returning to school, juggling part time work, a baby and trying to keep a social life, but for now here are the crazy things buzzing round my head about my return to work.

  • Will my little boy be OK?
  • Will I remember how to teach?
  • Will the pupils be happy to have me back in their lessons?
  • Will my colleagues be pleased to see me, or will they miss my maternity cover? Will it make a difference?
  • I can't wait to have something that's just for me, not anyone else in my family.
  • I love my job, and the pupils so it will be fun to be back at work.
  • What will the new head teacher be like? How will it be working under a different form of management?
  • It's only part time - my working week will be over before I know it!
  • I'm so grateful for my mum, and my mother in law for looking after my LO - it has saved me time, hassle, worry and money about finding a good childminder.
  • Do I really want to be away from my little boy for this long when he's still only six months old?
  • Will we be able to afford our bills every month?
I appreciate that much of this list contradicts other aspects of this list, however this is my brain at the current moment.

Sunday, 1 September 2013

Blog everyday in September: Day 6 National Read a book day

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog ever day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day six: National Read a book day


This book is wonderful.
A quick synopsis - four sisters growing up in an America at war with itself. Trials and tribulations of sisterhood as children, and then growing up and out of the family home and the new challenges that face them.
I first read this book while I was in Sri Lanka when I was 19 - I just picked it up in a 'library' in one of the travel lodge/hostels we stayed in. Since then I read at least once a year because I love it so much. The main character, Jo, is a reflection of Louisa May Alcott (LMA) and her family life is a reflection of that of LMA.
Sections of the book that touch my heart:
  • The kindness of their mother is passed through to her lovely daughters - this is shown in the book as charity to poverty stricken family, as well as to the kind gentleman living next door.
  • Their kindness is reflected back upon them and so gratefully received - when Beth receives a piano.
  • The friendship between Jo and 'the Laurence boy'. This touched me so much that my son is called Lawrence.
Highly recommended - tissues required!

A blog every day in September: Day 1 Who am I?

I follow a blog about motherhood and saw that the writer did a 'blog every day in August' challenge and I really enjoyed reading it, so I have decided to take part in Chickywiggle's blog every day in September

Day One: Who am I?

Easy peasy:

  • Ali, 28, live in Dorset with hubby, 7 month old boy and Border Terrier
  • I'm about to start back at work as a Secondary Teacher - part time hours, but totally dreading it (planning to blog about back to work experiences! Stay tuned!)
  • I love to craft! I'll try anything with the right guidance, but I really enjoy machine sewing. (Some of my creations can be found here and here)
  • I started to blog just to get some thoughts and ideas down on 'paper' - some are like diary entries, some are rants about things that annoy me, some are about the things I have been crafting. I'm not very good at keeping up to date with it. I can go months without doing anything, so I think this 'blog everyday' will give me a little kick start, and maybe some ideas too!

As a secondary teacher we run 'humanities' lessons which is basically history, geography and RE in one lesson. My colleague and I have planned a whole term's work called 'Who am I?'. It is based around identity - the pupil explores their own identity as well their peers and looks at cultural identity of others too. It's a really interesting way of getting to know the pupils but they find it hard to express things about themselves. "Can I just say 'I enjoy playing x-box'?" is a regular question.

I think self reflection is a really important part of life - self understanding and value can be obtained by thinking (and practicing) What do I enjoy? What am I good at? Who am I?

Food!

This is an old post, from an old blog - just moving things around!

Food is a big part of the Hoskins life! Out for dinner and trying new things

However, there is nothing quite like making something yourself to share with friends and family so this will be the first of many posts about food we have made!

First - look at these disasterous cupcakes! These were made with our niece and nephew and tasted fine but they look awful! I dont know what we did wrong, but I thought I would post them to show that even when things go wrong, whack some sprinkles on them and eat them anyway!



Triumph!

This however felt like somewhat of a triumph. Inside is a chocolate sponge cake with chocolate fondant icing in the middle. You could make your own easily, but you could just as simply use a Betty Crocker ready made packet mix!
Once it was cooked, cooled and put together I smeared the remaining icing around the outside so that I had something to stick the chocolate fingers to. To give you a rough idea of size, this is a regular dinner plate - the cake tins were 20cm?? - and it took two packets of fingers to go round the ouside.
The berries on the top were fresh and delish, and we served the whole thing with cream so that it was more like a pudding than a cake as such!

I LOVE gingerbread!

Gingerbread is super easy to make whether you are an experienced baker or not. I used the following recipe this time but there are often recipes in childrens books, on the back of the brown sugar packet, on the back of the gingerbread man cutter box and so on!

As it was Christmas we decided gingerbread SNOWmen were on the cards. Below are two images - one used ready to roll icing that we then cut with the same gingerbread man cutter and laid on top (with a tiny bit of water to make it stick!) and then we decorated. The other is using icing sugar and water to make a sort of paste that we thought looked more like snow! It all depends on how much time, space, effort you have to make! They went down a storm at the family christmas gatherings!
 

Christmas makes

This is an old blog post, from an old blog

I wanted to share some hand made bits and bobs that I made for Christmas presents this year. Some are from my own imagination, some I have made from patterns in books and some I have copied from things I have seen in books/online/other blogs etc etc

Enjoy!

Pin Board for Mum -

Easiest and quickest thing I have ever made!! There is a piece of foam board inside that was about a fiver from Hobbycraft - I cut it in two and made two A2 (ish?) pin boards. I used spray adhesive to stick some wadding and the fabric, then used a glue gun to stick the ribbon on the top and the edges so that things can be hung from it. Quick easy and a lovely gift - my mum uses hers in the kitchen, but also takes it to her craft fayres to display things she's made - like brooches or cards and so on.

You could put some fabric on the back too if you wanted it to look a little bit more professional/neat as my edges were a bit scrappy on the back. I have also seen people using a cork board inside so that you can add pins rather than pegs as I have used here, but you would need to avoid the wadding if that was the case for you!

Polkadot Pinboard
The finished product


Cushions for a friend

These are actually from last year.
These cushions were quick and easy - two squares of fabric sewn together (even with my limited sewing experience last year!). The middle is pinched together using self covered buttons (available from good haberdashery shops or online). Last year my experience was rather limited and I ended up making the cushions before buying the cushion pads - idiot! And I also should have bought nicer quality fabric to make them look a little nicer - but hey, you live and learn!

 

Christmas cushions for our house

These cushions were made using left over fabric from some other projects - hence the red and white backs! I downloaded the simple reindeer shape from the internet - a simple google images search! And used that as a template for my fabric. I hand stitched them to the cream colour backing fabric to get the effect that I wanted, but you could easily zig-zag stitch them on for a sturdier and neater finish.
I am yet to master attaching a zip so all my cushions have fold-over backs. To do this I hem the edges of the fabric where it will be showing before I attach the cushion backing to the front cover to get a neater finish.
As I said - all very basic, but it works for me and hopefully my short tips can help other beginners at this activity!



Cushions for the In-Laws!

My mother-in-law is an avid crafter so I was nervous about doing these, but with a baby on the way we needed to be saving money! Making them cost relatively little, and it kept me entertained for free!

Most of my fabric I get from eBay as I find it cheaper and lots of people do nice bundles of fabric in a certain colour set - as you can see on my green cushions below! However, this time for the main cushion fabric I went to a local shop because I felt I needed to see and feel the fabric to know it was what I was looking for.
The cushions are 50cmx50cm so my cushion pads came from Ikea - biggest bargain of the Christmas shopping! Everywhere I looked large cushions were about £20 - Ikea came in at less than a fiver! BRILLIANT!

I decide to save on cutting and to reduce the risk of me cutting wonky/the wrong sizes and so on, that I would have one long piece of farbic that I would wrap round the cushion. It meant that I only needed to stitch the two sides - the top and both were just one continuous piece of fabric. Does that make sense...?
First - the applique bit! I had planned to make two the same - both with the circles, but on my tiny machine and with my extra long fabric it was quite hard work to machine stitch round all those circles while trying to manouvre a metre of fabric. The circles came out really well - just have patience! However, I was over it and therefore made the bunting style one too. Even easier! Snipped some triangles as shown and attached them to the fabric using my sewing maching - I use green cotton to add to the effect, and them simply attached green ribbon using another green zigzag stitch to give the 2012 summer bunting effect!

Again, I hemmed the edges that would be showing on the back of the cushion before joining the edges up the sides - simples!



A gift I was given!

The below was not made by me, but given to us as a gift by a very talented friend and I think it is so amazing that it worth a mention! She has taken the time to photograph all sorts of random objects (In this case a boot scrapper, the frame of a bed, some string, a scrabble tile, a tree, a fence and some wood) and as you can see she has put them together to spell our family name.

I think this is so adaptable to whatever you want it to be - keep it similar for a wedding gift, or something, or you could make your childrens names for their bedrooms and so on

I love it so much - it was on the wall the minute we got home!!

 
It's never too early to start thinking about the things you could make for people as gifts - they dont have to be for Christmas, birthdays, mothers day etc all work. The thought process by you makes you feel proud of what you have given, but they also know that you have taken the time to create something from nothing.
If you are imaginative you can just free style which can be fun, but you can buy all sorts of basic books with step by step guides to making things - mine come from Amazon as I find them the cheapest!
 
Good luck!

Toys for little ones

These are some toys we've made for friends children that I thought I'd share just for you to see. I've tried to use old bits and bobs for these smaller toys, and to accessorise the letters to keep the costs down as often the children have grown out of them after a short while.


Decorated letter
MDF letters - painted and decorated
Toy giraffe
Toy giraffe for a baby

Toy elephants
Stuffed elephant.

Tuesday, 27 August 2013

Up-cycling!

With some inspiration from some bits and bobs I'd seen online, and of course from Kirstie Allsopp 'Fill Your House', I decided to up-cycle our French dresser from old fashioned orange to a yummy neutral cream colour.

Before and After
 
Below I have explained how I did this, and the products I used.
 
 
1. Using a Black and Decker Mouse I sanded down the entire dresser . You could use whatever sander you want, but I found this helped with the nooks and crannies of the dresser.
2. When deciding which sections to paint, and what to leave as bare wood just remember that you can always add more later - much easier than taking paint and primer off again!
3. I used a Homebase own primer - I decided to choose one that was water based to make it easier to clean up. I have since read that an oil based primer is more durable, so it's really swings and roundabouts!
4. I then used an eggshell paint for the matt look you see in the picture.
 
That's it! It took me a total of about 5 hours, which I think is pretty reasonable considering it's size and it was my first attempt.
 
In hindsight:
 - use good quality brushes so that you don't have to keep picking bristles off your lovely new upcycled furniture!

Friday, 5 July 2013

Being pregnant

This is an extract from a diary entry I made shortly after L was born. I think it might have started out as a blog plan, but I'm not sure really! Anyway - my thoughts on being pregnant.

I LOVED being pregnant! I have read lots of blogs, facebook sites, random comments and conversations with friends, family and strangers. People seem to have had varying experiences for a variety of reasons but I loved it!


Pregnant tummy
This is the day before I gave birth.

  • A bit of hip/back pain, plus the obvious tiredness called for some discomfort or upset most days but I just didn't care. I was amazed that my body was growing this little person, who was wriggling around inside me.

  • Everytime I looked down at my feet, bump, looked in the mirror, I was reminded of what was coming. The wriggling baby had me hooked - addicted to the private moments we were sharing.

  • As the sleepless nights increased in frequency and length, I simply enjoyed being kicked and prodded. Chatting to it and telling it how excited we were to meet it.

  • Some people seemed...amused (?)...at how relaxed we were - as though we didn't know what was coming. I knew it would be hard work and challenging - but it was exciting.

  • I was looking forward to childbirth and excited to allow this little person to take over my life. Nothing was going to stand in our way.

What did you love, or hate, about being pregnant?


Since writing this diary entry I have found out that both of my brother's will have had babies by the end of 2013. Their partners are busy exchanging tales with one another and I am so jealous! Ha - I would just love to be pregnant with my two lovely SILs and to be able to share with them this fabulous experience.

Our experience of child birth

I am fascinated by other peoples child birthing stories. Some are lovely, some are scary, some are simple, others complicated - but I love them all! This is simply our version of events. Please feel free to comment some of your own. While we were pregnant it seem bizarre to have no idea what it would be like. Hearing other people's stories helped me - perhaps it will help someone else.

It all started after some peaceful sleep (at last!). It was early morning and Rob was getting ready for work when I came out of the bathroom, worried about the blood on the tissue. It was wet like waters, and it wasn't mucus-y like I expected the show to be. It was one week before our due date so we spoke to the community midwife and the labour ward who suggested we go in to be checked over.

Withing a few hours the head midwife had declared we were in labour having seen the contractions on the trace. At this point I could feel them, but they didn't hurt. Our little baby's heart beat had dropped a few times so we set up camp for the day.

They broke my waters to help things along, but within a few hours the contractions had stopped so we had to be hooked up to a hormone drip to induce the contractions again. Having broken my fore waters, my hind waters broke on their own. It felt like I had wet myself and it was quite uncomfortable. My amazing husband cleaned it while I sorted myself in the bathroom. The first of many things I didn't expect to need him for.

The labour continued to progress with the drip but it meant we couldn't have the water birth we had planned for. I had been very relaxed about the 'birthing plan' - thinking of it as a guide rather than a plan, but now I was lost! What pain relief would I need and when?

The contractions were coming every few minutes and although they were painful they were bearable. Rob and I found our rhythm at helping and being helped. I was so relieved - I thought I'd be snappy and grumpy at him but I was simply amazed that this experience was happening to us. I felt lucky all day. The baby's heartbeat kept dropping and they didn't know why. There were several conversations about it all, but we were sent for a cesarean section.

I was so scared I was shaking all over, but I was also excited that our baby would be here in a very short time; Rob would be there to hold my hand and together we would finally see our baby for the first time.

I was wrong.

The senior anaesthetist tried in between three different vertebrae and couldn't get the spinal block in. It was the most painful thing I have ever experienced. A lovely midwife - Emma - pulled my head and shoulders forward to curve my spine, and I tried curling up on my side but it was no good. I had to have a general anaesthetic - Rob wouldn't be there and I would be asleep. I cried and cried as the team prepared me. I was worried that I wouldn't be there for the first few hours and that Rob would be alone. I had to remind myself that it was a small sacrifice for our distressed baby.

The recovery from the general anaesthetic is in a different blog because it sort of ruins the story of the best day of my life!

Rob brought our new baby into the recovery room with the midwife. He came right up to my face and I'll never forget the look on his face as he said "It's a boy, and his name is Lawrence".



At once all the troubles of the day were gone - they simply didn't matter because the happiness I shared with my husband at that moment overruled everything.

It took me about 6 weeks to be able to tell this story without being emotional and upset.

Monday, 8 April 2013

Trying to get pregnant!

This is a diary entry from June 2012 - we had just found out we were pregnant and this is the story of us trying to get there. I didnt write much about it during the trying so this is me releasing it all and trying to explain it to Rob. It was some excellent therapy at the time, a valuable thing to be doing now the baby is here too!

"In April 2011, my amazing Rob and I decided to start our family. We cancelled our 'once in a lifetime' trip to Sri Lanka on the assumption that we would be pregnant by then. It seemed like a no-brainer - of course we'd be pregnant by the summer. We were wrong, and we were gutted.

Shortly after this I was offered an amazing career opportunity. It meant we'd have to stop 'trying' (how can one word mean so much?) I decided the career was the right path. It was only then that I realised how much our (yet to be) family mean tto Rob. Seeing how emotional and upset my husband was - it was all I needed. The baby would take priority.

Now I needed to talk. No one has ever talked to me about their experiences of conception, during or after, but I needed to spill my guts and be assured I was doing the right thing. Emma was my girl! She understood, had guessed and said all the right things. I felt better.

By the time the job was due to start I still wasnt pregnant and we quickly calculated that I would have had time to squeeze in one year of teaching in this new role.

No holiday, no amazing job and still no baby. I began to worry.

Energy was plowed into planning our new home - the first we would own together. We demanded to be in by Christmas - we wanted to host! "Our last child free Christmas" we said to each other! "Of course we'd be pregnant soon" - the positive mantra came out again, but I didnt quite believe it.

I returned to work after the Christmas holidaysbut found I couldnt handle it. It was too stressful and it was the bottom of my priorities. Rob sent me to the doctor.  I tried my best to explain how I felt about the job, the lack of baby and a new house that I wasnt 100% happy with. The great and understanding doctor gave me some literature, a questionnaire and told me to take some time for myself. Through the information and a further appointment it was decided I had some anxiety issues
 - Relax
 - Stop worrying about the baby
 - Eat well
 - Exercise
This was the advice and I needed to find a way to slot it into my life.

I slipped easily back into work and my amazing friends held my hand, but Rob and I needed something new to concentrate on. Pepper was our answer

 
It seemed so simple
 - refocus (stop worrying about the baby)
 - exercise the dog (exercise me)
 - visit nw places (relax)
 
We brought her home in February and I felt like a new person. I didnt know how to tell people about anxiety without telling them about our still non-existent baby, so mainly I didnt. But I wanted to tell people how much the simple therapy of owning a pet helped pull me out of my anxious world.
 
We reached the Year 1 mark and it was the most upset I had been so far. Questioning why was starting to take over our conversations - not ideal for a relationship. I resolved to forget the 'trying' and enjoy my husband. We called it 'stepping up our efforts' and suddenly I remembered how much fun it was a year ago! I relaxed and perhaps that what made the difference because soon it was my birthday and I felt sick and I needed to pee.
 
We were in Lulworth Cove for my birthday and I was SURE, but I'd been sure before. We spent the day walking the cliff with Pepper and talking like it was a done deal. Rob revealed that my family would be joining us for dinner and it all seemed perfect.
 
"Peeing on a stick" - what a gift! I remember leaving it in the bathroom of our B+B because I couldnt bear to look at it. Rob went in after me and emerged smiling - unsure but smiling. It was positive and suddenly all the stress of the last 14 month disappeared. There was nothing wrong with us. We had succeeded. Our plan had finally worked out.
 
We spent the weekend telling our parents and siblings and we could not stop smiling"

Saturday, 26 January 2013

Easy like Sunday morning....

My husband has to work today and I hate it when he has to go. The dog cries and I am up earlier than usual for no good reason other than I have been woken up. Of course it is worse for him as he actually has to be at work (as much as he loves his job!). Being 37 weeks pregnant I am feeling like I need my rest now as there will soon be a lovely bundle to get me up instead regardless of the day of the week or the time of the day!

So today's short post is about being grateful for the things you have in the here and now and has spurred me to write a longer post about all the things I am grateful for

This morning I am grateful for sitting in bed researching crafting ideas and having time to write a shopping list of all the things I need to pick up ready for a craft day. A CRAFT DAY - I wont have time for that in a few weeks!

Now, onwards with researching and planning...

Thursday, 10 January 2013

Lost...

So, I thought Blogging would be easy! Jan 1st came along - this will be fun I thought, this will be easy I thought, I will have something interesting to share I thought. It turns out I was wrong. I dont know where to start with my blogs - some of them become more like a Dear Diary entry and thats no fun to anyone!

I have been reading other blogs - totally at random to see what people talk about and it seems researched, thought out, planned and I dont seem to be able to do it.

How does one start?!?!

Friday, 4 January 2013

Pregnant and tired...no new story here!

So my day started quite poorly at about 3am when I couldnt sleep. This was most inconvenient as I had planned to be up and refreshed by 7 (when hubby left for work) so that I could walk the dog, tidy up and sort a few things out before going in to town to meet some friends for coffee. Instead it meant my morning really began at 9am when I dragged my groggy self out of bed and promised the dog a decent walk.

Well, it turns out that extra napping between 5.30am and 9am helped a great deal! I feel like Ive done plenty! Washing - done. Friends visit - done, particularly detailed catch up! Hubby's birthday shopping - partially done.  Vaccination - done (even if it was a little painful!)

I keep reading that my insomnia is linked to being uncomfortable in bed and having lots on my mind - both fair comments but I am usually a sleep monster and my discomfort isnt that bad and Im feeling organised so my brain isnt whirring at night (at the moment!). Lots of parents have told me that it is my body getting me prepared for the baby coming. I cant see this myself, however the baby is extremely active at this time of the night/morning. (Its the only thing that doesnt keep me from pulling my hair out!)

So, I am wondering - fellow parents - is it possible that the baby's waking time now will reflect its waking time once it's born?

Wednesday, 2 January 2013

Me Before You - Jojo Moyes

**SPOILER ALERT**
OK - the first thing to mention is that my review and thoughts of this book does give away the ending - it is vital to do so to explain my feelings about the book.

Second thing to mention is that pregnancy has made me much more emotional. I know I am not the first to experience this, but I think it is worth mentioning that I am not usually quite so high and low in my emotions. On account of this it is quite possible that my thoughts about this book are magnified by my pregnancy emotions!

A friend loaned me this book MONTHS ago!! She has asked me several times if I have started reading it and I have had to embarrassingly say 'no'. Its not that I haven't been interested, but I really haven't read a book since the summer!

A brief synopsis of the book:
A young woman, Louisa, begins a new job as a carer to a paraplegic man, Will, of a similar age. He was an active and adventurous person, but now that he has no movement in his legs and limited movement in his arms he is making plans to go to Dignatas with his family to be allowed to make the decision to die under his own wishes. Louisa decides to try to convince Will that he has plenty to live for - and of course, they end up falling in love!

Once I had realised that Louisa wasn't going to be successful I was heartbroken. How can Moyes make me invest in this lovely friendship, humorous chapters and interesting take on disability and then take it all away! It meant I couldn't put Me Before You down - much to husbands pleasure (more Champo time!).

Others can do whatever they can please as long as it doesn't affect anyone else - this remains my opinion from the way I have been brought up - but I haven't stopped thinking about this book and its affects in the real world.
How would I feel if it was me in the wheelchair? How would I feel if it was my husband in the wheelchair telling me he wanted to do the same as Will? I really don't know what I would do.

From researching and reading online about Dignatas and assisted suicide I have discovered that Terry Pratchett created a documentary about similar, but I cannot find it anywhere! It seems like it has been BANNED in the UK which I find odd - if anyone has any ideas please let me know, I'd be so interested in seeing it.

Tuesday, 1 January 2013

A plan for the year!


New Years Resolutions

01.01.2013 has arrived!

This was the plan...visit a few friends at some house parties before returning home for some good food and some good films to see in the new year with my husband, Pepper the border terrier and our 33 week baby bump.
The reality was I was tired - story of my life at the moment! Same as all pregnant women I guess, but I am not sleeping well and even the smallest task tires me out! Yesterday, all I did was walk Pepper for about 25 minutes and cleaned out 2 kitchen cupboards! How can that make a person tired. So we stayed in together and had a take out. My legs were restless so we ended up on seperate sofas so that I wasnt so fidgety. Romantic - no. I couldnt concentrate so I was playing on the iPad while hubby watched Sherlock Holmes. Romantic - no. We went off to bed about 10.30pm. Romantic - no. Pepper woke up to the fireworks at midnight so was brought into our bedroom to sleep. Romantic - no. I woke up about 3am with a heavy and uncomfortable bump so hubby got me a drink and some Rennie (just in case!) and cuddled me the best he could. This morning hubby looks like death due to my being awake again. Romantic - I think so!

So now that 2013 has arrived I am excited/nervous that in a few short weeks I will have given birth, my husband will be a Daddy, Pepper will, hopefully, be an excellent guard dog (as opposed to thinking the baby is yet another play thing), I wont be working for at least 9 months, I will have to find some kind of outlet for my crazy thoughts to avoid going nuts!

So thats what this new years resolution blog is all about. In the last year I have suffered with some anxiety problems and find that talking things through, thinking things out and just generally getting it out there makes me feel better. Perhaps this blog can do exactly that for me while contending with giving up work and finding my feet as a parent.

Feedback will always be welcome as I am known for being 'an explainer'!